My DH BIL has been made homeless, again!
This is the 5th time in a year he's been chucked out. Reasons being that he's a dirty bastard and failure to pay rent.
He's stayed with us twice before, 1st time when I was in hospital having DD, came home from the hospital to find him there. Three weeks he was there! Worst time of my life, I felt banished to the bedroom coupled with a newborn who cried constantly (silent reflux) and with no bloody support from DH!
Second time was over new years for another two weeks until I lost my shit and called the police to chuck him and DH out. He didn't bathe once when staying with us, he stank out my flat, after telling him to get in the bath and bloody wash several times a day he still didn't didn't [boak]
He smokes way too much, I kicked off as we have a balcony for smoking, never in the flat, I caught him lighting up in the front room out of the window. The prick burnt my expensive curtains. Still waiting for the money to be refunded for new ones and trashed my front room with beer cans, takeaway boxes and dirty clothes.
Coupled with the fact he's a heavy drinker, came home one time to find him shagging in my bed with a girl who wasn't his gf, the fact he thinks its hilarious to pretend to give my 14mo DD alcohol (I'm not ashamed to say he had a black eye from me) and that he's just a general prick and I cant stand him. He expected me to cook for him and gave me three black bags full of stinking washing to do (went straight out into the garden, there's a thing called a laundrette, or a clever idea, do it your fucking self) with no contribution. I wasn't asking much, £20 to cover the cost of extra food, and the elec shot up whilst he was staying.
Me and DH actually split up for a few months because I was so angry with him for not protecting his daughter from this specimen (I'm big and ugly enough to protect myself) and for just being a fucking coward.
Him and DH are not even close, the only time he ever hears off him is for money Or to ask if he can stay because he's been kicked out.
Now phone call this morning off him begging to stay because he's been kicked out because he's got scabies amongst other things and his gf doesn't want him near her. As soon as I heard his name, my expression changed and DH backtracked as soon as he saw this. Told him he's sorry but he can't help him, go ask friend blah blah blah. The problem being BIL has burnt all bridges with his friends, and frankly i couldn't give a shit.
MIL has been ringing all day saying how family is so important (she can't help, she's working in another country at the moment) and basically trying to guilt trip DH into letting BIL stay.
He says he's feeling torn between me and him and doesn't know what to do. I've told him there's such a thing as a B+B or hotel and if he's pissed his money up the wall then that's his problem.
Sorry didn't realise it was going to be so wrong 
AiBU?