my apologies. .I genuinely would like to talk about body image and contradictions on mumsnet

[sorenoggin]

Seems my last post was misunderstood so am trying again.

Why is it okay on mymsmwt

i'm trying to figure out what mymsmwt stands for.

Can you expand?
Didn't see the other thread so not sure what you are alluding to.

Eh?
Need more info.

Post was about people accusing others of having a small dick when they disagree with them. OP introduced this with what sounded like a woman-hating sexual slur hoping for reactions (sorry to sound coy, not sure how it works since the thread was deleted- I presume I wouldn't be allowed to repeat the exact phrase he used)

What?

Oh yes I saw it... Labia references

See what you mean now op

And OP is under the impression this is particularly common on MN

OP made an incredibly uncool post about women being judged for their behaviour based on labia size in an attempt to illustrate that it was wrong to say that some men behave badly because they have small dicks.

It went down like a lead balloon and was swiftly deleted.

Must be my bedtime.
Haven't a clue what OP is about

Please go away

Sorry phone gone nuts..I have started another thread..hopefully not as offensive to some of you to explain what I wanted to talk about.

P.s - I am a grown up woman of 3 and regular on here

But since I do not wish to converse with people who use sexist and insulting language, I won't go into body image discussions with the OP. Fwiw that would include people using small dicks or being fat as an argument, OP.

Body image and contradictions? You claimed a few posters have made reference to 'small dicks' and made a ridiculous thread about large labia

Was very odd.

Wierd

Oh ok, I think I get it - you were trying to start a discussion about why people seem to think it's ok to accuse certain types of men of having small dicks, because they behave in dickish fashion? Is that right? It's a bad stereotype, used to belittle and offend people - so you likened it to asking how we would feel if someone equated our behaviour to our labia size?

Have I got that right?

In which case, YANBU. It is silly to accuse someone of having small or large genitalia based on their poor behaviours.

I understand excatly what you are saying and i have no idea why it is ok to say on here especially considering it is not just women using this site.
You are right, if you said the same comment using a reference to womens genitalia there would be outrage.
It isn't fair.