I remember thinking one of my granny's was really old. She acted, and dressed old, from what I now know is around 45. It seemed to be a choice. My DM is now 84 and is never home; I could not possibly find the energy to keep up with her social life and drinking habits
I am not old enough to retire but old enough to be so very tired.
I am not old enough to deserve a seat on public transport but I so hate to stand the whole ride.
I am not old enough to get senior discounts but am beginning to look longingly at them, whilst counting the years until I qualify.
It is a conundrum, this aging thing!