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To be pleased to see that ex's new GF just posted a Britain First post

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Nowiamhappy · 22/03/2015 19:00

Just had a little look at ex's new girlfriends FB page (I know!) and feel very pleased to see she is an idiot. I know it's all wrong but can I enjoy this please?

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Queenofknickers · 22/03/2015 19:01

Yes, enjoy Grin

FuckItBucket · 22/03/2015 19:02

I love. But of fb stalking.

I end up on my friends, dads, mates, daughters, friends, cousins page Grin

ilovesooty · 22/03/2015 19:04

He's an ex. Why does it matter? Enjoy it if you want but I don't see how it makes you happier.

QueenB14 · 22/03/2015 19:04

Enjoy Grin

She sounds like a keeper... score Hmm

cleanmyhouse · 22/03/2015 19:12

Yes. you really can. I know I would...

There might be a slight dip in my celebrations if I had one of those really depressing hangovers, but I'd bounce back in a day or so.

needaholidaynow · 22/03/2015 19:47

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googoodolly · 22/03/2015 19:48

I wouldn't be glad - what if they become serious and someone like that is around your kids on a regular basis?

FuckItBucket · 22/03/2015 19:49

Should have posted on chat.

It's just an FB post and little cheer up for Op.

FuckItBucket · 22/03/2015 20:08

He got the Punch anyway as you lot didn't help Grin

FuckItBucket · 22/03/2015 20:08

Wrong thread Blush

sparing · 22/03/2015 20:09

Who says she's got kids?

Nowiamhappy · 22/03/2015 20:15

No kids. I'm pleased because when he dumped me I was very upset, then when he got a new GF affected my self esteem to think he had found someone better. This puts it into perspective .

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ilovesooty · 22/03/2015 20:21

Sorry but I think you need to work on your self esteem if it's enhanced by evidence of someone else's Facebook bigotry - that you had to actively look for in the first place.

FuckItBucket · 22/03/2015 20:22

Most people stalk Fb of exs and new partners. It's just nosiness. Grin

I haven't yet

needaholidaynow · 22/03/2015 20:24

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AwfulBeryl · 22/03/2015 20:24
Grin I would too, nothing wrong with a bit of Facebook stalking.
storytopper · 22/03/2015 20:35

Some fairly pompous and self-righteous posts here - give the OP a break.

nowiamhappy - I would have stalked and had a little smirk when I saw the Britain First post.

Couple of things to be wary of - your name may come up on her page as a suggested Facebook friend. Then she will know you have been looking at her profile.

Also - she may be looking at yours so make sure it is squeaky clean - don't want to give her the satisfaction of smirking at something on your page.

Nowiamhappy · 22/03/2015 20:42

Thank you storytopper, and good thinking :-)

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SpinDoctorOfAethelred · 22/03/2015 21:50

Grin Enjoy, definitely.

TheAssassinsGuild · 22/03/2015 21:52

No kids, so enjoy!! Grin

(Very good point story)

debbriana · 22/03/2015 21:56

Sorry to tell you this Facebook stalker, if your ex wanted someone like you he would have stayed with you. Work on your self-esteem before bashing another woman. She may be an idiot but their was something he went for that you don't have.

ScotsWhaHae · 22/03/2015 22:01

Ooo hark at you debbriana!!!

ilovesooty · 22/03/2015 22:05

Perhaps the ex always wanted a relationship with a bigoted twat. Hmm

InThisTogether · 22/03/2015 22:12

yes, YANBU, enjoy. if she is foolish enough to have an open profile, maybe she even wants you to look :)
(scurries off to check my privacy settings)

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