Tomorrow is DD birthday. Ex has her half the day, I have her the other half.
Ex MIL text today to ask when she could come and see DD tomorrow. I text back and said ex had her that morning and she could go see her then as we have plans for the afternoon.
She replied that she had spoken to ex and it wasn't really possible during the time he had her(it is possible just easier if she can see her during my time)
Now I have to host ex mil during the afternoon so she can see DD on her birthday.
I don't really have anything to do with ex's family anymore (their decision not mine) but it's very much on their terms when we are 'family' and when we aren't.
Plus DP is finishing work early to come home and see DD open presents etcetc and I don't think it's fair on him to have my ex mil hanging around the house.
AIBU to say she'll have to see DD during ex's time or the next day?