First post, please be gentle!
I'm PMSing so not sure whether I'm justified in being annoyed here or whether it's hormones.
My husband has started a new job, just over a mile uphill from where I work. He finishes today at 3pm, I finish at half past three.
I called to see if he was going to come pick me up. He says, no, you walk up to me. I explain that this doesn't work cos he'd either have to wait about for me to walk up which takes us to 4pm, or I would have to finish early at half two, which I can't do either today.
I also feel a bit precious that he'd rather I had a walk uphill to him, than nip down in the car but I've no problem doing that some of the time. He's next to a motorway at his work and I'm next to the new motorway which is quicker for us to get home down here.
I've ended up telling him to poke it and that I'll make my own way home. I think he's being really selfish, and I'm also a wee bit hurt at his lack of care and consideration. I thought being close by we'd try to share commute etc and I'd clearly walk up if it suited our finish times but him making such a fuss about not doing a 5 min car journey to collect me has really fucked me off.
I would be great to get home for 4pm together and be able to start the weekend with the kids but as it is, I'll not get home til about half five using public transport.
Thoughts? AIBU or is he? Or a bit of both?