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AIBU?

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I can literally have sex with any guy I want.

139 replies

ConeyIslandPeach · 08/03/2015 13:39

Aibu to think no woman should ever say that regardless of who they are?

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itsbetterthanabox · 08/03/2015 16:54

Well Desiree Washington didn't have free will over her own body.
There is a big difference between some on saying they have mutually enjoyed sex with all the people they have been attracted too and a rapist who forces people to have sex with him.

PilchardPrincess · 08/03/2015 16:55

But Mike Tyson is a rapist. If he says I can fuck whoever I like then that is a somewhat terrifying statement.

It's not the same as her saying it at all unless she has form for sexual assault.

JohnFarleysRuskin · 08/03/2015 16:58

I don't like the statement and i reckon we wouldn't get on ;)

What a way to measure yourself.

limitedperiodonly · 08/03/2015 17:05

Mike Tyson maintains that Desiree Washington wanted to have sex with him.

He is a rapist, whether he believes it or not.

But the sentiment is no different to Amber Rose saying that she could have sex with anyone she wanted.

It's arrogance.

Luckily she's probably not strong enough to force it.

It doesn't preclude her from being deluded enough to think that every man would want to have sex with her or want to be with her and do what she wants in her world.

And that's what rapists think.

Theimpossiblegirl · 08/03/2015 17:13

I get the feeling Kanye is a bottom man.
Grin

Gruntfuttock · 08/03/2015 17:14

A lot of PP have said the same thing on this thread, though (that they could have sex with anyone they wanted to). I've never been that self confident - or should that be conceited?

fatlazymummy · 08/03/2015 17:18

I didn't interpret her remark as being 'rapey'. Just a bit too full of herself, really.
I think she is an attractive lady, but I can see some men not being attracted to her. I think the hair would turn some men off, for a start.
It doesn't really matter though, because even the most gorgeous beautiful person in the world is not going to be seen that way by everyone.

JohnFarleysRuskin · 08/03/2015 17:22

I suppose if you mean it as- 'most of the guys I've really gone for have reciprocated' - that's probably true for many. (Daniel Craig was my one exception there) ;)
But the way she said it, with the 'literally' comes across more as 'there is not a man on earth who doesn't want to shag me' and that clearly is insensible.

Boofy27 · 08/03/2015 17:37

Gosh, eavesdroppers in the Amber/Kanye household must still be giggling now.

Ohwhatfuckeryisthis · 08/03/2015 17:45

Theoretically I believe she (thinks) she means.

itsbetterthanabox · 08/03/2015 17:53

Wow! I'm shocked by your posts limited.

PilchardPrincess · 08/03/2015 17:58

Of course this comment doesn't indicate that she is a sex offender Confused

That's literally ridiculous.

PilchardPrincess · 08/03/2015 18:01

Is there any indication that this woman has committed a serious sexual assault?

I'm just not seeing how the comparison to Mike Tyson works at all. It's a pretty disgusting thing to say. I mean obviously she didn't mean "I will use force to get what I want sexually from anyone I want it from". Why would anyone even take it that way?

FWIW I'm sure male stars have said they can have anyone in the past and everyone thought "wow that's one hell of an ego" not "oh god he's a rapist".

limitedperiodonly · 08/03/2015 18:03

Wow! I'm shocked by your posts limited.

Why? Genuinely, why? itsbetterthanabox

AnnieThePianist · 08/03/2015 18:04

Incredibly arrogant (if meant seriously). However beautiful and fantastic you may be, there are obviously men who will be happily married and would never cheat, those that don't find tall girls/small boobs/black hair/whatever attractive.

PilchardPrincess · 08/03/2015 18:05

Because a woman made an egotistical statement about how desirable she thinks she is.

And on the basis of that you have said she is potentially extremely dangerous and drawn a direct comparison between her and a violent convicted rapist.

IreneA78 · 08/03/2015 18:07

I am not a man so my judgment probably doesn't count for much but she looks repulsive to me and puts me in mind of the charming expression 'rough as a badgers arse'.

If she is is talking about single men on the pull, then yes she probably could have any she chooses purely because unattached MEN ARE NOT THAT FUSSY!!.They are biologically programmed to spread their seed as widely as possible.

TheRealAmandaClarke · 08/03/2015 18:20

Yep. She has a big ego
And is, therefore, deserving of ridicule, and derision, amd comparison with a rapist.
Or in the sane world, not.

limitedperiodonly · 08/03/2015 18:24

you have said she is potentially extremely dangerous and drawn a direct comparison between her and a violent convicted rapist

No, I really don't think I did, pilchardprincess

TheRealAmandaClarke · 08/03/2015 18:35

A few posters have drawn direct comparisons between her comment and the ideology if a rapist.
And that is nonsense.
She was saying that no man would turn her down.
A rapist doesnt require consent.
The two positions are about as alike as sardines and blancmange.

derailleurdePan · 08/03/2015 18:44

"she probably could have any she chooses purely because unattached MEN ARE NOT THAT FUSSY!!.They are biologically programmed to spread their seed as widely as possible."

Nice.

JohnFarleysRuskin · 08/03/2015 18:46

Those bloody unattached men- their bloody seed keeps flying past my windows.

ahbollocks · 08/03/2015 18:48

I believe she started off as a stripper at 15 then moved into modelling/music vids etc etc so I'm sure she isconstantly surrounded by men who would like what she is offering.
Probably got a skewed vision of men as a whole.

ConeyIslandPeach · 08/03/2015 18:48

A few posters have drawn direct comparisons between her comment and the ideology if a rapist.
And that is nonsense.

Exactly. I didn't start this thread to call Amber Rose a rapist or compare her to one.

She's just a little deluded and that might be because she gets so many comments about her body and beauty on Insta. If someone came on and called her trash or a thot, or anything negative they would be labelled as a hater.

That was what Samantha Brick did, if you said "she just looks ordinary to me" then you are a jealous hater Confused

I don't Samantha Brick is a rapist either.

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mrsfuzzy · 08/03/2015 18:53

it just proves that some men aren't fussy as long as it's a female and has a heart beat.