Nasty Text

[BoredAdminGirl]

So, long story and no biggy but it did upset me and don't think I should let it go. My DP is due to start her new job Monday and had ordered lots of new clothes about 2 weeks ago. I told her she should try them all on etc and make sure they fit so she doesn’t have to rush around this weekend. Well she didn't, and some of them are too small.

My text back to her was "ffs I told you to try em on"to me this was meant light hearted" She then went mental and told me to "leave her the fuck alone" and to stop having a go at her

I am always nice to her and show her love and affection and this is how she repays me. At the moment I just feel like going to the pub after work and let her stew. She has apologised but I'm not sure I accept it. AIBU?

We're both 30 ish and live together, no children

I think she probably:

1. Misread the time of your text.
2. Was feeling rubbish about the clothes being too small.

And 3. Is getting stressed about starting her new job/ leaving her old job.

She's an arse for not trying them on and stressed about job.

Some women just HATE men to be right - and your DP is obviously one of them. She cocked up and she knows it.......and she knows YOU know it.

And she's an arse for taking it out on you. I would expect her to be getting you a large bunch of flowers to say sorry for being such an arse.

Why are you assuming OP is a man?

TheFecklessFairy, the OP's username has the word girl in it, wouldn't you assume the OP is probably a girl/woman?

Why? At face value thet both need to apologise for the swearing.
Also ^^ gender not stated, other than alluded to by a user name.

Op how did the apology go?

Reverse

Sorry I agree.... Doesn't sound light hearted. Just tell her your sorry and it wasn't intended to sound harsh.

Reverse/troll/who cares anyway