AuntieStella excellent points made.
Limited You cannot understand WannaBe's post regarding double standards applied to 15/16 year olds, but go on in your post to prove it perfectly.
You would stand by your dd if she were pregnant, because that is morally right, you would allow her the decision whether to terminate or not because her mind and her body is not yours. Exactly! But you argue these girls are naive and cannot be held responsible for their own actions, that if they have undesirable intents, then it is not their fault. Precisely the double standards WannaBe was illustrating. If your daughter can be grown up enough to make such a life changing decision herself, on her own limited experience of the world, then these girls can be grown up enough to make the decisions that they did. And as your dd would have to do, whatever she chose regarding the pregnancy, they will (and should) have to live with the consequences for the rest of their lives. I am not saying leave them to their dreadful fate btw, but that if they returned, they should be treated as any other UK criminal of that age would.
You also accused me of being Bear Grylls
I was answering a post that suggested girls and their families wouldn't want them to return to the UK if they may face prison. So that poster is just as idiotic as me thinking they could escape, but that poster also held your viewpoint, so I don't expect you to bash her.
To clarify, I would think that if someone is still of a returnable state, not already trapped in IS controlled territory, but knew they had been stupid to initially intend to join them, it would still be preferable to be imprisoned as opposed to say "Agghh! I can't go back... so I might as well go on."
Also, to people demanding proof and evidence well you are being a little ridiculous. Even intelligence forces have to go on suspected motives based on what they can gather. These gorls have made contact with known IS sympathisers, travelled the common route to make it to IS areas in Syria, followed pro IS sites and disappeared for a week. If their intentions were good we could have surmised that by now. But we haven't, because their intentions are most likely not good.
If the police came across a man in a car, with binoculars, a shopping list for poisons and a diary of someone's daily life, while parked outside said person's home in the middle of the night, do you think they might arrest this person on the surmise that they intended them harm? Sure as hell they would. Yet no actual crimes have taken place yet... have they?
So why is it so wrong for us to surmise their intentions, and debate on what should happen if they were to return?
Adsy hats off to you for bringing something so controversial under the spotlight.
I do hope these girls are brought home and proper measures are taken to ensure they pose no threats before integrating back into society. But as it has been a week, I doubt my hope makes no sodding difference for them. That is why I cannot feel sympathy.