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To want to disengage from this group of friends as I think they're not being very pleasant about me?

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PinkHairbrushes · 11/02/2015 14:58

I am friends with a group of women; we meet up regularly for nights out and sometimes meet for lunch. One friend introduced me to the group so really they are all "her" friends and I get invited along to things. My friend has also set up a facebook group for us all to chat and to arrange things.

From day 1 I have had a feeling that a couple of the women just don't like me. They have both always been quite abrupt with me and also very patronising and eye-rolly when they talk to me. I don't want to be paranoid but you know when you just get the feeling that someone doesn't like you?

The others are all a bit more polite to me but all quite standoffish. I feel like a spare part on nights out, even though I have tried so hard to chat to them all and to be nice.

On our Facebook group I will always reply to things and I never really get any likes or acknowledgement for my replies, whilst they are all always liking each others replies.

Final straw now is we are all going out this weekend and we are meant to all be getting a taxi minibus between us. I have just been tagged on the facebook group saying the minibus can only seat 8 of us and as "X is bringing another friend" there won't be room for me and I'll have to make my own way there. It's at a venue 20 miles away!

WIBU to just have nothing more to do with the lot of them? DH thinks that my friend probably bitches about me to them all, as she is a bit like that, hence they don't really like me.

OP posts:
Aeroflotgirl · 11/02/2015 21:33

Yes delete yourself from the group, and delete them from your life.

Lovemycatsandkids · 11/02/2015 21:39

Bitches op. You deserve far better. Tell them you are far too busy to go but hope they have a great time.

Better friends out there my lovely.

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