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Should i report these as missing?

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flora717 · 25/01/2015 00:05

My ex took my children on holiday last year. He still has their passports. I've asked for them back. He refused.
Our holiday is booked for summer.
Do I report them as lost?
Can I report them as stolen? (Probably not)
I know where they are, after all. I suspect he'll drag it out until a week before just to give me the stress.
I need to decide soon, as if I do get new ones I also need to get visas In good time.

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FightOrFlight · 25/01/2015 11:44

I don't know how the do those neat little links, but there a number of threads about this on various forums:

www.google.co.uk/webhp?sourceid=chrome-instant&rlz=1C1CHWA_enGB597GB597&ion=1&espv=2&ie=UTF-8#q=ex%20refuses%20to%20return%20child%20passport

flora717 · 25/01/2015 12:44

Sorry. I went to sleep. I gave him 28 days two weeks ago, so I do still have two weeks. But I am fairly confident he wont return them on that date (he made a big fuss I fon't need them until Summer and seems to think they are 'safer' at his house).
Yes I have a stamped receipt from the check and send service when I got them.

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flora717 · 25/01/2015 12:45

I have 2 DD's. If I take the buying new ones route then he wont be able to use them again. Honestly he wont get them again anyway Angry

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MiscellaneousAssortment · 25/01/2015 12:52

Why would they be 'safer' at his house?

It's so rubbish when this stuff happens, not even pretending it's for the children, just open warfare.

Poor you.

flora717 · 25/01/2015 12:59

I cannot think of a reason why they'd be "safer". Certainly I have their birth certificates etc. It's his usual crap to be frank.

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quietbatperson · 25/01/2015 12:59

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Rosa · 25/01/2015 13:02

He thing is for new ones does your ex have to sign for the passport as well???
In Italy both larents have to sign the form- was just wondering.

flora717 · 25/01/2015 13:11

No, he doesn't have to. I did require his passport details. But, thanks to ex related paranoia I do still have his details (in the box where the passports should be in case of any difficulties whilst travelling as they still have his surname).

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