I won't drip feed, My auntie and uncle are getting married and although they had mentioned it, I wasn't sure if we were invited or not as I had not had any actual invite, no txt or email or phone call or nothing. They have been engaged for at least 18 months and this week declared it would be a child free wedding (not to me as I haven't seen them for a while) but my parents got some kind of txt or phone call asking if they would be going, and when they heard it was child free apparently said that they probably wouldn't be going if the kids weren't allowed as dgc2 will be only a few weeks old then.
My aunt and uncle then said children would be allowed and have txt my parents asking for a head count and if we are all going.
I've not heard from them myself so was confused if me Dp and dc were invited and it seems we are, but I feel a bit awkward about it. I hadn't budgeted for going and we would need to get a hotel as it's nowhere near us, I don't know how I'll be feeling as dd will only be maybe a week or two old then and I don't want to intrude on a wedding where my dc have been invited as an afterthought. Should I be politely declining here, is that what you would want if you were the bride or would you be offended. I'm over thinking it massively I just don't want to offend anybody.