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AIBU to be cheered by the person who delivered the groceries today?

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MakeTeaNotWar · 10/01/2015 13:49

I've been doing a fortnightly online shop forever. Today, for the first time, the groceries were delivered by a woman. Up until now it's always been men from the various supermarkets. Hurrah. AIBU to have been cheered to see a woman do a traditionally male job?

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Trills · 10/01/2015 13:52

I feel like this too sometimes.

squoosh · 10/01/2015 13:53

I think that the delivery of online shopping is too new a phenomenon to be considered traditionally anything.

wonkylegs · 10/01/2015 14:00

Umm it's not that unusual - I used to get a weekly Tesco order 50% of the time male driver, 50% female - as I usually got 1 of 4 drivers I knew them quite well after a few years. I almost felt a bit sad when we moved.
Here we don't do online shopping but our parcel deliveries are about 60/40 male/female which I find more unusual. Especially the UPS lady who wears shorts all year round.... It's the NE of England FFS it's cold in winter, I'm cold just looking at her.

Trills · 10/01/2015 14:01

Driving vans and delivering things in general is pretty male-dominated.

Because women can't drive large vehicles or pick up boxes, apparently.

TidyDancer · 10/01/2015 14:02

It's not unusual around here either. Pretty even balance really.

Lucylouby · 10/01/2015 14:09

We have one female tesco driver round here. One of the yodel drivers is also female and two out of three Hermes drivers. But that is no way near 50% of all delivery drivers that deliver round here. It is very much a male orientated job where we live.

There is a female digger driver on the local building site. This did impress me, as building sites are traditionally very male dominated.

SEmyarse · 10/01/2015 22:59

I'm a hermes driver (and female). About 3 quarters of our depot are female.

I have to stick with hermes work since they only have a maximum of 17kg and I struggle with anything over about 20kg. I suspect this is the case for lots of women.

That obviously relates to parcels rather than food deliveries though.

Hassled · 10/01/2015 23:01

I'm always delighted when the taxi driver (I get a fair few taxis) is female.

Westendgal · 10/01/2015 23:08

I was going to post on MN recently on a similar topic. Was out walking the dog and saw a female stone mason repairing a wall and then, later on, a female technician high up fixing street lights. It made me happy. Then I thought I shouldn't be feeling such surprise IYKWIM.

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