Lovely boyfriend of two years has decided to stay at home tonight rather than accept my invitation to come over for the evening. He has got lots of work to do (as always) and was working a night shift last night so says he wants to relax at home and do a few jobs. (I've got DC here so can't go over to his). He's suggested going to the cinema tomorrow instead. It's really upset me to think he'd rather be at home than with me. AIBU?