To want my husband to get off his ass...

[Autumn82]

and wash up so that I can clean and tidy the washing room and then clean the kitchen before having a shower. We have friends coming round in two hours and he's still sitting there in his pyjamas and dressing gown that he's been wearing for two days.

You have a couple of options:
Tell him
Do it yourself.

Washing room?? I meant living room!

He's been saying he would do it for hours- it's his one job, I do everything else.

What's a washing room?

Boo. I liked the sound of a washing room.