I am just finishing mat leave, we have a 1 yo and a 2 1/2 yo. Dh works three hours train ride away most of the time so pretty much lives in a hotel. Usually gets home v. late on a Thurs night, goes to localish office early Friday morning, so the only day he is ever here before i am in bed is Friday night- and early for his work would be getting home at 8 at best. I have had a nightmare week with the kids, d&v, crashed the car, dd2 was up literally all night last night and now think she has hand, foot and mouth. Have tried ringing dh a number of times but not had any response, so aibu to be really upset that just when i was wondering if i should open a bottle of wine, i get a text saying he is just leaving the office... And going for a few drinks!
I don't necessarily need him to come home every Friday, lord knows he has to work most of them, but i just feel like he could do me the courtesy of letting me know, or dare i say consulting me before he is already off to the pub!