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To ask how often you have sex?

84 replies

MinnieM1 · 08/12/2014 11:25

What the title says really, how often do you & your husband have sex? Also how old are you and how long have you been together?

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sunflower49 · 09/12/2014 03:05

Me early thirties, him late forties.
Together three years,not had sex for over a month Blush just busy and tired (both of us). I've expressed is there a reason, but I'm reassured that there is only reasons not related to me.

Before this episode it was once or twice a week. When we were in early stages it was more like twice a day!

zoelikesjam · 09/12/2014 05:08

Does it make a difference how many children you have?

I have a HUGE sex drive and would have sex three/four times a day. OH has a low sex drive and would be happy with sex once a week.

We have sex at least once a day. I am 30 he is 31 xxx

zoelikesjam · 09/12/2014 05:09

forgot to add, we have been together 18months, and between us we have five children, two who live at home with us.

aliciaj · 09/12/2014 05:11

At the moment about 2 times a week but we both would have more but we have a 2 month old and when our other kids go to sleep at 7 she often wakes up then until 11. I want her to change her sleeping hours. 30 been married 12 years.

perthmom · 09/12/2014 05:50

Me 45, DH 48, married 15 years. 2 DCs, 12 & 13.
When we first met we'd have sex at least once a day. Now I'd say it's roughly once per fortnight. Both too buggered by the time we fall into bed. DH says he would like it more often, but he is generally snoring the minute he gets into bed anyway!

thewavesofthesea · 09/12/2014 08:24

Both early 30s. Been together 12 years. Twice a week on average (not this week yet due to tiredness! Need to fix that soon Wink )

40somethingwonderful · 09/12/2014 12:10

Both early 40's

Together over 20 years

1-2 a month

KitKat1985 · 09/12/2014 12:49

Me: 29 DH: 33
Been together nearly 5 years.
Currently about once a week as knackered by our 3 month old. Also DH currently has a back problem which often prevents him from being as active as we would like.
Pre-baby about 2-3 times a week.

vienna1981 · 09/12/2014 21:48

I'm sure I've seen this thread before. However, the answer is still the same, i.e. never.

Nobody loves me, you see.

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