To have a bad day with dc, but still want another one

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Just that really. I've had a tough day with two dc, nothing major, lots of tantrums, not doing as told etc . Lots of having to discipline and trying not to shout. But despite this I really want another dc, which I know would be another round of sleep deprivation and more pressure on my emotions and time.

So really asking for advice to stop me wanting another dc.

How old is your youngest

You can borrow my 8 m/o DS if you like? A few nights with him will kill your urges I'm sure

Get one of those massive snails?

Youngest is a year.

Have another - It's easier in the long run when they fight play together and you don't have to be sole entertainer

Only you can say

But I wish someone could give me a baby that is a 1 year old. My first year was so so tough.