Many bipolar sufferers never experience psychosis, though @outtahell. Again, it is a spectrum condition.
Re: the feedback loop. That must be so frustrating, Mitchy.
I havent found meds that work for me yet, but have been lucky in that the psychs I have worked with have always been totally influenced by my feedback on how a particular med has worked for me and been willing to trial different things. I refused quetiapine because it slurs my speech and gives me disturbed vision, for example, and the psych accepted that I wasnt going to take it anymore. No arguments.
I also refuse lithium because I am concerned about long term side effects and dont think mania is my main problem (I 'only' really get hypomanic. Depression is the more debilitating aspect of my BP).
I guess that willingness from the HPs to accept my views on my own medication might change if I was sectioned, though.
Do you follow the blog, Sectioned? If not, please have a look. There are some interesting pieces on forced treatment.
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