theres 3 tins of opened beans in my fridge

[ssd]

and the heating has been left on with the upstairs windows open

and dh has been buying the food from the local garage - £4 for a pack of bacon

I've been working all weekend

think Ii'll be done for murder soon

I don't think a judge in the land would jail you.

they would if they're a bloody man

Keep his bank card, issue pocket money.

If he wants to act like an irresponsible teen/child, treat him like one until he grows up/realises.

Tell DH you should never leave opened tins in the fridge. The tins cause the food to oxidise and make it unfit for human consumption.

I am inwardly screaming on your behalf. Say something and you'll be 'nagging' though.

Pour yourself a gin instead.

gin sounds good

Whats the problem here?