That I tried most things, and I have no idea whether they worked, they had a placebo effect or it was just a small short cold, but I felt fine on the day.
I had a fab wedding day yesterday, thank you to all those who wished me well.
This will out me to any of my friends who Mumsnet too, but seeing as I'm married now a name change is in order anyway 
No longer am I almost a wife, I am a very happy wife instead