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A divorce AIBU

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FluffyMcnuffy · 28/11/2014 13:54

Couple have been married 12 years (together 15), with two primary aged DC.

Partner 1 put 200k equity into the purchase of marital home, partner 2 put nil in. House now has 300k equity (including original 200k). Partner 1 earns 60k partner 2 earns 35k (both late 40s) and pensions proportional to their earnings.

They have 2 primary aged DC, both work full time, and parent 1 is the primary carer (flexes hours to do some school runs, sick days off etc) and plans to have kids in week with parent 2 having them at weekends.

Parent 1 thinks the divorce should be a clean break with equity split 250k/50k in their favour. No CM to be paid.

Partner 2 thinks equity should be 50/50, with them also getting a portion of partner 2s pension. CM should be paid at standard rate.

Who is BU?

OP posts:
bitofanoddone · 28/11/2014 18:14

There will be much more to this than the OP. As a couple of other posters have mentioned there are many questions that need to be answered before a fair assessment could be made.

The OP makes me think P1 is not what they seem.

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