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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To expect this woman to help me?

125 replies

jessieisfeelingblue · 21/11/2014 20:16

Today I was shopping in a large department store. I was trying to find a t-shirt for DD in a particular style but I was having trouble finding the one that I wanted. So when I saw a woman heading in my direction who was dressed in this stores uniform I thought I'd ask her. This woman was actually wearing a cap and an apron but I knew she worked there as like I said she had the rest of the uniform on so I assumed she would be able to help me.

But when I asked her (nicely) if she could help me find the thing I wanted and I explain (again nicely) what I was looking for, she told me that she worked in the cafe and not the shop floor and I would be better off asking one of the shop floor staff. I was quite confused by this as she obviously worked there so why wouldn't she know where things were?

I again asked her nicely and told her that even if she did work in the cafe (which I had already figured out before I spoke to her by the apron and cap) she should still be able to help me and know where things are but again she told me she didn't work on the shop floor therefore didn't know it.

AIBU to expect her to help me? She still works there.

OP posts:
KellyElly · 21/11/2014 20:25

You are ridiculous. I work in a large office. If someone calls about an accounts enquiry, then I can't help and pass them on to the relevant department. As she did with you. Why would she know where things were that weren't in her own department?? Especially in a large store???

AttackOfTheKillerHamsters · 21/11/2014 20:25

While we are on the subject, can I just point out that this is actually pretty common? I work in the cafe of a large department store myself and customers constantly ask me about things on the shop floor. Even when I'm clearly decked in my cafe gear complete with apron and cap people will still ask me questions about things on the shop floor. I thought it would be obvious due to my uniform that I work in the food section therefore won't be spending time on the shop floor.

Onwards2014 · 21/11/2014 20:26

Is this a reverse AIBU?

theHowlatWooooooCorner · 21/11/2014 20:26

Was it John Lewis? Was there a penguin nearby? If there was, did you as the penguin to help you?

Fairenuff · 21/11/2014 20:27

she told me that she worked in the cafe and not the shop floor and I would be better off asking one of the shop floor staff. I was quite confused by this

Grin

I don't believe you OP. Could you explain exactly what it was about this statement that confused you?

BellaVita · 21/11/2014 20:27

Yabvu.

Longdistance · 21/11/2014 20:31

Yabu.

She works in the cafe, not the shop floor. You need a shop floor assistant, which I have read she contacted.

jessieisfeelingblue · 21/11/2014 20:31

Why wouldn't they be trained to know what is on the shop floor? They work there!

OP posts:
BorisBaby · 21/11/2014 20:33

Reverse

Perfectlypurple · 21/11/2014 20:35

Why would a cafe worker be trained on the shop floor? Would you expect a shop floor worker to go and work in a cafe?

Would you expect the people that work in the buffet on a train to be able to drive the train or an air hostess to fly a plane?

I think you are being silly really.

OttiliaVonBCup · 21/11/2014 20:36

They are trained. To make coffee and sell cakes. and to deal with unreasonable customers

There are usually customer services desks where you can ask nicely where things are.

Pippioddstocking · 21/11/2014 20:36

Yaba and a total idiot with it , this can't be true surely ?

jessieisfeelingblue · 21/11/2014 20:36

Okay, time to come clean. This was a reverse. I work in a cafe in a large department store and today I was hassled by a customer who wanted me to help her even though I tried explaining that I worked in a cafe but would find someone else to help her. Which I did.

But she complained about me afterwards at customer service for not helping her. Even though I don't know what more I could have done.

OP posts:
ShadowKat · 21/11/2014 20:36

YABU.

I wouldn't expect a member of staff in a large department store to have detailed knowledge of stock that wasn't in their department.

If they did work in a different department to the one I wanted help with, I would expect them to help me find a member of staff who would be able to help me. And it seems that the cafe worker did indeed this. So I'm really not seeing your problem.

LadyLuck10 · 21/11/2014 20:37

Yabu and being thick. Can you simply not understand?

OttiliaVonBCup · 21/11/2014 20:37

Oh fuck.
Not another one.

YABU.

pictish · 21/11/2014 20:37

'They' are not Borg you know!

ClawHandsIfYouBelieveInFreaks · 21/11/2014 20:37

Just lol! Grin

"She was wearing a cap and an apron!

Grin

It's like....going into the butchers and spotting their cleaner and asking her to bone your chicken!

HermioneWeasley · 21/11/2014 20:38

Please, can the reverse AIBUs please stop. OP, if you had explained what happened people would have said that YWNBU to have handled it the way you did.

jessieisfeelingblue · 21/11/2014 20:38

She did keep insisting that I helped her. When I explained that I didn't know but would find someone who could help her she just kept insisting that "no, I want you to help me" Confused.

OP posts:
pictish · 21/11/2014 20:38

x posted

Yeah...silly trollop.

WD41 · 21/11/2014 20:38

Please no more reverses

Yackity · 21/11/2014 20:38

Really, why did you bother with a reverse? I would have been interested in your thread if you had started it honestly, now I can't be naffed. It's annoying.

LadyLuck10 · 21/11/2014 20:38

You deserved any bollocking you got purely for this being a reverse!!!

Fairenuff · 21/11/2014 20:38

Bloody hell OP not another stupid reverse. What do you hope to gain from doing this. You are just fucking lying to us!

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