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Should I ring and complain about this teacher?

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BirdhouseInYourSoul · 14/11/2014 18:52

Genuinely don't know if I'm being U and a bit precious here so thought I'd ask here. Please be gentle...

DD had her appendix out 11 days ago. She's been back to school yesterday and today for half days. Mostly she's ok. Keyhole surgery so not too sore but she is pretty tired out most of the time.

Today she had food tech - double lesson so just under two hours. They were doing a practical thing and they have to stand at the workbenches. Halfway through DD asks if she can bring a stall over to sit down but he refused on health and safety grounds.

If that's true then fair enough. But as soon as DD had finished her part she asked if she could sit over at the tables for the last half hour as she was tired and sore. She still would have been able to hear and participate but he said no. No explanation - just a straight and abrupt 'NO'. he knew about her appendix btw.

She is quite shy and never the type to challenge a teacher so stood there for the remainder of the lesson in pain.

I am fuming really. It doesn't help that I cannot stand this teacher and feel he is overly aggressive to his pupils. Last term he humiliated DD because the school asked for a voluntary contribution and I refused (this is another thread tbh. I was one of many parents who did)

Because of how I feel about him I don't know if I'm over reacting about this. Should I ring on monday and complain?

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LumpenproletariatAndProud · 15/11/2014 10:45

I need to see the kitten!

Good luck with Monday, he does sound like an arse.

Molotov · 15/11/2014 12:18

Becoming assertive doesn't happen overnight Bun, I know that. But this could be used as an opportunity to let a timid girl know she has a voice and a right to use that voice.

redexpat · 17/11/2014 11:34

Have you spoken to the school yet?

Molotov · 17/11/2014 12:22

I was wondering that, too. Please keep us informed if you get the chance Smile

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