Newborn son arrived two weeks ago and I have a nearly three year old. We have had quite a few visitors, and have only taken Ds to visit FIL. Everyone else who wanted to see him has visited us. Not planned, just circumstance.
My Gran (dads mum) lives very local, however we have yet to visit her and she has not visited us. No reasom behind it, still getting to grips with having two little kids, am in pjs most of the day, have only done a couple of "outings" so far.
I intended to visit Gran at some point this weekend if we got the chance.
Yesterday teatime I get a message from my aunt (dadd sister) saying "Ive shown Gran a photo of X as she has no idea what he looks like and would like to meet her first great grandson" so I reply "lovely thanks, I am intending to visit her soon, probably this weekend".
Awoke this morning to the exact same fucking message on a photo on Facebook (my mums photo too). This comment was added a good six hours after she and I had messaged one another.
I feel like she is being PA and that I have somehow commited some sort of cardinal sin in not visiting my Gran yet.
Gran is capable of visiting me should she choose. Aunt is a bit of an odd one anyways -- we dont have much of a relationship yet she tries to portray publicly that she is a real family person (not true) and tries to use Facebook or similar to make digs at dad and our side of our family whenever she can.
My own dad is yet to have a cuddle with the baby as he has had bad flu for the past ten days - he came and wished me congrarulations after the birth and had a look at ds but has been too poorly for cuddles yet. He isnt PAing all over the shop.
Sorry.....I probably ABU but just feel quite grumpy towards her.