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Dumped after 10 years

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chillyourboots · 03/11/2014 15:53

Hope you don't mind me posting here for traffic... Sorry in advance...

Background.
My girlfriend and I have been together for 10 years, lots of ups and downs.
But generally happy, do lots together, go away for weekends, out for days.

So weekend was crap, we argued lots, and she was in pub most of weekend, her way out when things get tough.

I rang her yesterday and she obviously thought she had cut me off but infact she had answered.
She was in the pub and I heard her say to people she was in the pub with

'how can I tell her I dont love her number and I don't want to be with her'

Gutted is not the word.

She come in an hour or so later, said she didn't love me anymore, hadn't for a couple of years, we both cried.

Thought things maybe abit different today, but it's not.

Contract onrented flat runs out in afew months.

I have no where to go, no savings and not enough money to rent a studio even in a poor area.
I have a good job and get ok wages.

I'm screwed!!!

OP posts:
Greengrow · 04/11/2014 10:48

My children were considering it in their 20s - if you are finding it hard to live in Central London which is very expensive then being a kind of house sitter in an old fire station could be quite fun. Or they have slept on a friend's sofa etc. Lots of options if you don't earn much.

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