Hey guys, a little bit of background - my DH & I have been married for just over 7 years and we have two children. Generally my DH & I get along great, but lately we've been a little off.
My DH's brother is 2 years younger than him and they've always been pretty close but never saw each other much because his brother lived and worked in Michigan. That was until January this year when he moved back to California because my MIL became ill (she's fine now) and he ended up staying and working here.
So anyway, DH & BIL act really dumb together, like kids and BIL is always over at our house. Just the other week (last Wednesday), I got home from work at around 1pm and started cleaning up in the kitchen. DH had the day off so he was down in the basement fixing shelving that came down. So BIL comes over and asks where DH is and I say, so he goes down to the basement. Anyway, a lot of time passed and the kids came home from school and I spoke to them then sent them upstairs to do their homework while I started dinner. So I started thinking, where the hell is DH and BIL? So I went down to the basement and they were naked and they were grappling and wrestling and laughing. I just kind of stared at them and they didn't even see me, so I was just like, "Dinner will be ready soon and you need to come upstairs.". I mean, I thought it was pretty sketch, but I didn't want dinner to burn and I was going out later with my girlfriends, so I just went back upstairs.
So I finished up with dinner and called the kids down and gave them their food at the table and then DH & BIL came up from the basement and into the kitchen. They were dressed again, but DH had a bruised looking eye and BIL had a kind of swollen bottom lip and a missing tooth and was holding a tissue to his nose. He left and DH sat at the table and started talking like nothing was wrong. So I waited till the kids were finished eating and had went to go play upstairs then said to DH that I was getting kind of sick of how childish he and BIL were acting and that I would prefer he not come over so often. So DH started sulking and gave me silent treatment. I didn't really have time for it though, because I was going out, so I just went and got ready and left. When I came home the next day, he still wasn't talking to me, and eventually he said I was being unreasonable to expect him to not have BIL over at our house.
I don't think it is unreasonable after the way they've been goofing around. I guess I just wanted to hear other people's opinions about it all.