Ok help me out.
I have a chance to go out and have a well needed night out with DP to reinvigorate our relationship/just have fun.
We are an hour from home in DPs home town. dD is with his mum. She loves his mum.
We've had an offer to stay at a friends house so I can drink (I never do and it would be great to be able to)
BUT...
I just can't shake the idea that I am being unreasonable in putting a night out above my daughter. She rarely sleeps the night and always wants cuddles. She is happy and safe with her DGma but I can't help feeling guilty. Does it make me a bad parent to do this? This will be my first night away from her.