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To not know what to do about this gift :(

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Ifyourawizardwhydouwearglasses · 23/10/2014 19:19

Oh dear :(

There is a photo in our house of me and my old dogs on the hills behind the house. It's been missing lately but I didn't notice it until recently. I love it and its one of my favourite pics ever.

Anyway, DH came in the other day with a large package. It was a painting of the picture. As a gift for me. It's a LOVELY thought......but the painting is terrible.

It's just....really bad. It looks like a gcse art project. At best.
I look like a weeble and the dogs are just awful - they could be any chocolate labs. In fact, you can't even tell they're labs. They're just brown dogs with back legs that don't bend properly. It looks like a child did it :(
God I feel awful saying this.

I can't even look at it because its a scene that is so personal to me, which has been totally spoiled.
He hasn't had a bill yet from the 'artist' but I'm sure it'll be eye watering.

The artist in question is a family friend (I don't know them, friend of his parents) so to return is as being substandard would cause huge offence all round.

Wtf do I do!?
Obviously I've said thank you very much etc, and I am SO touched by the thought of it, honestly I'm not ungrateful of the sentiment.

But what do I do with the thing? Should I be honest? He said 'its not brilliant is it...?' and he looked so disappointed.

:(

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KatieKaye · 25/10/2014 08:33

Oh Blue that is truly ghastly.
Murky colours and wtf subject matter! I'd give it the decent burial it deserves. Honestly, I couldn't stand to have that in the house - give me the heebie jeebies.

BlueBrightBlue · 25/10/2014 08:41

I just can't throw it away ( and no one in there right mind would want it)so it is stored behind a large chest of drawers.

Saltysnack · 25/10/2014 08:44

Blimey, indeed- I really wasn't expecting that! Poor you Blue!

You can understand the chap's quizzical look - from the waist down, he's dancing with Leon from Gogglebox

Thanks Pictish for that link, I have been laughing so much at those, though sympathies to all of you with this dilemma!

NewEraNewMindset · 25/10/2014 08:46

OMG Blue I berluddy LOVE that! Seriously, I would take that off your hands in a heart beat.

number2093847 · 25/10/2014 09:02

Hang it above the guest bed pictish?

TestingTestingWonTooFree · 25/10/2014 09:16

DHs (long dead) grandmother was something of an artist although she confined herself to painting pictures of the Pope or copying the work of famous artists. We have a Lowry copy and I took the piss out of the badly painted dog, or little giraffe as it looked to me. I checked the original and found that she'd been faithful to it, Lowry was rubbish at dogs it seems. The little giraffe is my favourite thing about it now.

NanFucker · 25/10/2014 10:05

Blue - WTAF????!!!! Grin

BoulevardOfBrokenSleep · 25/10/2014 11:18

I actually rather like Blue's picture... although I wouldn't want it in my house!

MintyCoolMojito · 26/10/2014 14:21

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CrispyFern · 26/10/2014 14:32

Stick some googly eyes on everyone in the picture and maybe a sprinkle of glitter. It'll be fine then.

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