It's my birthday today.
DH and I agreed not to do presents as cash is tight at the moment. He got me a card, as did DS (2 years old). We had a nice morning before DH went off to college and DS to nursery. We get our birthday as a day off work, so I have a rare day off to myself. My mum phoned and she sent me a card and a voucher and I have had cards from friends. All lovely.
BUT...
DF texted me this morning. I assumed it would be "Happy Birthday". It wasn't. It was a text asking to borrow some money. No mention of my birthday.
Then about 20 minutes later, DSis texted. No mention of my birthday. Just a text about the enourmous poo her DS has done.
AIBU to be a bit fucked off with my family (DM excluded)?
It's not ruined my day and I am not having a pity party, it's just a bit 
I see DSis several times a week and DF at least once and week and he lives with DM so it's not like we are not close or don't see each other or talk.