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Is this rude or am I overreacting?

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ReallyOTT · 24/09/2014 22:41

I've been seeing a guy for about a month. We get on really well and he's being staying at mine a few nights a week. Some nights he suggests it some nights its me.

Any way decided that tonight he would stay at home to give us a chance to miss each other (cheesy I know). He messaged a little while go saying he's coming over he really wants to see me. Then says he's not really coming. Fair enough I get gusset sense of humour.

He then said. I do wanna come but I'll have a shot sleep.

I said. Nice.

He said he said he didn't mean it like that. It's because there's a fly in the room! Confused

So I said it's fine. Bit pissed off and actually offended tbh!

Then he asks should he come over and I said no I don't want you to come if you don't want to!

He's pissed off now. I'm pissed off too.

Am I being over sensitive or is what he said rude?

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KellyElly · 25/09/2014 20:47

So, do you have kids at home then?

sharonthewaspandthewineywall · 25/09/2014 21:48

What? Well I suppose Jeff Goldblum in your partners room is quite off putting.

Btw it's nothing to do with me or my wasp

AtrociousCircumstance · 25/09/2014 22:26

How does he know you have a fly in your room tonight? Is the fly a permanent fixture?

ReallyOTT · 25/09/2014 23:19

No kids

The fly has gone I assume as the fucker is passed out on my sofa!

It's actually he who snores too. I am a fidget when in bed but if I get bad I go in the lounge!

Not had any complaints so far tonight lets see what he says in the miring Confused

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Pagwatch · 25/09/2014 23:22

God, its like Romeo and Juliet with a low level infestation.

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