I've been seeing a guy for about a month. We get on really well and he's being staying at mine a few nights a week. Some nights he suggests it some nights its me.
Any way decided that tonight he would stay at home to give us a chance to miss each other (cheesy I know). He messaged a little while go saying he's coming over he really wants to see me. Then says he's not really coming. Fair enough I get gusset sense of humour.
He then said. I do wanna come but I'll have a shot sleep.
I said. Nice.
He said he said he didn't mean it like that. It's because there's a fly in the room! 
So I said it's fine. Bit pissed off and actually offended tbh!
Then he asks should he come over and I said no I don't want you to come if you don't want to!
He's pissed off now. I'm pissed off too.
Am I being over sensitive or is what he said rude?