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To think this is not my fault? (Long!)

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MissSusanStoHelit · 23/09/2014 11:53

I sold my business last month - it's basically a very expensive specialist piece of equipment which is small enough to fit in a large suitcase, so it was a mobile business for me and easy to sell.

I advertised on Gumtree UK on the advice of the manufacturer (who are UK based) and got quite a few responses - one in particular was very interested and we had an email chat about the service history, serial numbers etc and he seemed keen. He said he was a regular importer into the US of these machines second-hand, and was particularly interested in mine because it's the latest model with loads of extra features. A few days later he got in touch to say that his friend would like to buy it, but that she was in America so they would handle all the shipping details.

They arranged for a broker to come test the machine, pay the money and take it away to be packaged and Fedexed to the US. I wasn't really happy with sending to America but they were handling all the courier details so I agreed. With me so far?

Last night I get a call from the lady in America in a panic - the machine is stuck in Customs because it needs a "Medical Device Listing Number" in order to be released. Now, the technology is recently FDA approved and I was part of the blind panel that did the treatments for the 501K so I included all those details in the paperwork with the machine when I handed it over. The number they are looking for is a different one, issued by the manufacturer so I contacted them today to see if they could give it to me - and have opened up a huuuuge can of worms...

Apparently the machine was not supposed to be sold in the States because my particular machine has not been correctly labelled as per the FDA agreement (I bought it before the FDA approval came through). Also, there is an exclusivity agreement with their US distributor prohibiting sale of machines through any channel but theirs. So the machine has been illegally imported and will have to be returned to me. I had NO idea that this was the case, and am waiting for the Director to call me back to talk about next steps.

My AIBU is this - if the machine gets sent back, AIBU to think I'm not responsible? I feel it should be the guy who arranged the deal and his broker who tests and ships the machines on a regular basis - if he has been importing loads of these machines he should be aware of the restrictions on them. I did not advertise it for sale in the USA, I did not ship it to the USA so does that mean I bear responsibility for refunding the money if it's sent back? Is it up to them to get the correct paperwork and sort it out? Or should I have done the research before agreeing the sale myself?

Please help - it's a LOT of money we're talking about (over 12K) and I am stressing... Sad

OP posts:
MissSusanStoHelit · 23/09/2014 18:34

Thanks everyone - I've written to the buyer as per the above, and she has replied thanking me for trying... let's see what happens! I'll keep you posted

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Evabeaversprotege · 23/09/2014 20:08

I would take a step back.

Not your problem, you have your money.

sizeup · 23/09/2014 22:56

You've done the right thing re emailing buyer etc. Is this mysterious item similar to what the guy in Pursuit of Happyness is trying to sell? I am totally intrigued!

differentnameforthis · 23/09/2014 23:58

He said he was a regular importer into the US of these machines second-hand

I would think he would know what channels to check re importing in to the US! If he is that experienced, he would know about this kind of thing! Once it is sold, it is no longer your problem.

SqueegeeBeckenheim · 24/09/2014 00:05

Yeah, I'm totally intrigued too! What is the item?!

& what is a "yoni massage apparatus"?!

AlpacaMyBags · 24/09/2014 00:08

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differentnameforthis · 24/09/2014 00:12

so it seems they've put me down as the sender...i have no paperwork for this though Pretty sure that is illegal too, as he would have signed a customs & import form! It's a legal document too.

When I post stuff to the UK from here (Australia) I have to sign a label that then goes on the parcel to show what is included & what the cost of it is.

If you haven't done this, he has fraudulently filled it in with your details. I would contact customs & explain the situation, give them as many of his details as you can.

VeryStressedMum · 24/09/2014 00:21

So now you know the reason he gave your name as the sender, he didn't want it traced back to him.

Bulbasaur · 24/09/2014 03:11

The guy who collected it did a full inspection, signed my paperwork and took it away after giving me the balance in cash.

He bought it. No longer your problem or concern.

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