To be upset at getting a slanket for my wedding anniversary

[splodgeness]

Seventh wedding anniversary (altho we have been together 20 years and are v happy). I forgot completely. He bought me a slanket (it's a fleece blanket with sleeves). What does this say about us??

I'd be thrilled with a slanket! I've been asking for one for years!

We are on our 11 years-and both forgot. We just laughed about it! It's only one day. If your relationship is great anyway then don't sweat it.

Ps. Would love a slanket. Lucky.

I love my slanket...maybe he just wanted you all wrapped up and warm?

DSis's husband bought her a slanket on their first Christmas together. She bought him a telescope that he had always wanted.

I am not exaggerating when I say it was a massive nail in his coffin and they didn't make it to their first anniversary!

Awwwww did you get him one ....a pair of Slankets??

Is there room in it for two?

If not LTB.

[If it wasn't done with humor, you need to have a word about how he sees you!]

At least he remembered. You forgot!

So yes, YABU and he is entitled to feel upset.

My DH does this kind of thing. Actually, no, now he asks and I have said on a few occasions that I don't want a slanket!

You got more than I did for my tenth last week !

Now if he was under it wearing nothing but a smile , that would be acceptable .....

YABU. He as good as bought you a hug!

It says that you're complacent and that he wants to keep you cosy.

Signed,
Happy Recipient of a Slanket From DH (who often snuggles up under it with me).

I should also add that when DSis was upset and complained that this was not the way she wanted to be seen after only a few months of marriage, her husband went out and bought a fishnet body stocking from a sex shop instead!

You forgot so have no cause to complain regardless of what the gift was. At least he remembered and went shopping to mark the event.

The 7th anniversary is wool, so it seems as though he's put more thought into it than you've imagined

Ha! DH bought me a slanket for my (summer) birthday, 3 months after DS was born.

In his head, it was a cosy thing for me to snuggle up with while relaxing in the evening.

For me? Well, I cried. He returned it.

I probably would actually like and use a slanket. But that wasn't what I needed shortly post baby. I needed reminding that I was attractive and continued to exist as a person in my own right.

So, it's not really about the gift.

Fwiw, unfortunately my reaction has destroyed DH's confidence to buy me even a slightly risky present. So you might like to bear that in mind before reacting.

It says that you don't give head space to remembering your wedding, and he has become your mother!

(My DMum got me a slanket for a birthday one year, and very snuggle it is too).

If you want to rekindle the passion, you need to wear only the slanket and surprise him on the sofa?

I'd love one. Humourously delivered or not. YABU.

lol

My DH bought me a set of bathroom scales for my birthday
My DS bought me a slanket for Christmas
Says it all really!

He used to buy me sexy undies! Or jewellery!!

Yes the traditional gift is wool so that is what he was thinking. So he did put thought into it, which more than I did!!

I suspect I will enjoy the slanket but see it as an early warning about complacency !!!

At least he remembered where you forgot

where do you buy slankets??? I've been looking for one for ages!

After last years bastard fuel bills,slankets will be compulsory in this house from October onward.

Dh got me a slanket once. I couldn't complain as I had bought him an ironing board cover