What would you do?

[Patrickstarisabadbellend]

An 18 year old girl has threatened my 12 year old dd.

Aibu to knock the fucker out? I could snap the little shit like a twig if I wanted to.

Yabu

Better to speak to her!

Yabu....

And v scary

At 18yo id be calling 101.

Um yeah you would be unreasonable to do that. But I can understand your anger when's she's threatening your child. Please do not do that though. You would be the one in the shit.

If you think the threats are serious go to the police, and get your dd to avoid this girl like the plague until this dies down. If you can't go to the police for whatever reason then avoid this girl and situation, "snapping her like a twig" could have serious reprocussions for you and your dd. hope you get this sorted.

ThinkIveBeenHacked has the right idea.

Yes 101

Give her a bunch o'fives!

I wouldn't do it. I don't like the idea of prison.

I'm just venting.

I'm gutted. My dd isn't particularly bothered about it, I'm just so angry that she has been threatened.

Oh Ok, I give in. Why and how was she threatened?

I'd knock her out, but then again I'm a bit of a brawler really. Theres a huge difference between 12 and 18 if I am honest. Was it over something or was it just 18 year old being a cunt?

Well if it is prisonworthy then youare BU not to get in touch with the police.

The teenager though my dd had bullied her younger sister.

Turns out it was another girl and my dd has no clue who the bullied girl is.

Dd was pushed against a fence in front of a gang of older girls and the 18 year old had her by the throat.

I spoke to 101 before.

Dd was totally innocent.

If it was me I would be having a discreet meeting and some whispered words in the little fuckers ear. As she is an adult maybe she needs to be challenged by someone her own size....

But seriously don't follow my advice, I'm a volatile fucker at the best of times!

An adult had assalted your child.

You either need to frighten the adult yourself or get hard relatives/friends to warn her off, nicely but firmly, or go down police route.

Doing nothing isn't an option.

I could easily beat the girl up but I want my dcs to see me doing the right thing.

I have spoken to the police.

I hope she's ok?? I would be raging in your position too! The police going to do anything?

Dd is fine. In fact she's doing brilliantly. All her friends and other kids are rallying around her which is fab.

I'm with thebody - this isn't an 18yr old giving your DD shit, this is an adult assaulting a minor surely? It's pretty serious and I would be raving too. That's a massive age difference legally and realistically iyswim