I'm huge, fed up and struggling with difficult toddler. MIL has asked DH to drive 5 hour round trip to visit family of v v distant friend of the family who have just had a bereavement, I am pissed off, need the weekend with him around to recover and prepare for the next week. WIBU to tell him not to go?. Again very distant friend of family, who to my knowledge MIL hasn't seen in years and there is someone else who could easily take her if she feels like she needs to go.....