I have a young single aunt who wants to come to visit in a couple of weeks. She is visiting a friend nearby and will arrive at 9.00pm and will go at 10.00am the following day. I haven't seen this aunt in nearly 10 years, we just lost contact although she is a lovely person. I have 3 young kids, youngest a 6 month old baby and the idea of anyone turning up at 9.00pm makes me feel exhausted. I also feel like she's not really coming to see us and spend time with the kids but is perhaps looking for a bed for the night to make meeting her friend the day after a bit easier. I know she is flakey and I imagine she'll arrive late too, she says she can't come earlier cos already has plans. Seriously who visits anyone at 9.00pm? and then goes at 10.00am.