We don't really see any of our NCT group any more. We haven't seen anyone since the round of birthday parties last Autumn.
DD turns 4 in a couple of months and I had already thought that I'd let her choose who to invite this year, so they'll be her friends coming, not the kids of my friends including the NCT kids who she wouldn't even be able to recognise.
So we've just received an invite for the first birthday in the group (by email so dd hasn't seen it yet) and we happened to run into another person in the group who implied we'd be invited to her ds's party.
I am a SAHP, they work FT or nearly FT, so I guess we have a wider circle of friends that we have the time to see regularly.
If we invite the NCT kids to DD's party it gets much bigger and I'll feel bad and sad about not inviting other friends who we are closer to.
So do I turn down their invites? Or accept them at face value and not return the invite? Or change DD's party and invite everyone we know (again).
I think I'm leaning towards turning down the invites.
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To accept birthday party invites for DD with no intention of returning the invite.
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estya · 19/08/2014 22:03
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