I am, along with most of my friends, desperately worried about a "Yes" vote. I am English, married to a Scot, living in Scotland with our 2 Scottish children. But we are not English / Scottish - we are British.
A "Yes" vote will make me into a foreigner, much as Eck says I will get a Scottish passport, I don't want one. We will move to England but un entangling our lives here will be hard, and expensive. Eck keeps offering a glorious socialist future with benefits a-plenty for everyone. I am not a socialist. My friends will leave Scotland, fairly rapidly as their companies re- deploy them. My money is in England, in English / British banks. It may not be safe. What about my pension? My mortgage?
I don't want to live in a small, remote, unimportant country, I want to live in Britain. A "Yes" vote will cost a bloody fortune for all UK taxpayers as the bureaucrats and technocrats begin their endless meetings and the process of wrenching things apart. Like all divorces, the lawyers will be the only winners and the split will be traumatic and acrimonious.
Actually, the whole thing has already caused huge damage to relationships - families, couples, friends, colleagues are all divided and rebuilding things will be hard, even after the No vote I am praying for.