to think I'm an idiot

[dreamydaysbytheriver]

Pregnant, and I have a not-quite 4 month old.

??

I don't even remember having SEX.

I'm so so so stupid, I'm totally in pieces.

do you have anyone in rl who can help you with this? please dont stay in a relationship because of an unwanted pregnancy. you will cope if you leave, and it sounds as though your relationship is dead. is there any family member who could help you?

Dreamy,

Are You saying you think your husband had sex with you when you were so sleepy you were not really with it, and you have no recollection of it happening.

Apart from the time he did this that has resulted in a pregnancy, do you think he has done this other times? If you weren't pregnant, would you think you hadn't had sex with him.

This must be a confusing fine for you, I know you are dealing with a surprise pregnancy, and these questions on top of that must be really difficult.

Have you asked your husband how you got pregnant. Can he remember having sex with you? If he can, how many times can he remember when you can't?