AIBU to think he should just accept my explanation?

[creampie]

I call people 'cariad' (it's a Welsh thing, it means 'love'). Am starting to think this is a bad habit I should try and stop.

After a week in my new job, I've just been approached on the quiet by one of the Indian staff who has just asked me to stop calling him 'curry head' as he finds it a bit racist

OMFG! Have tried to explain, but I think he thinks I'm just making excuses for my closet racism! What should I do?! AIBU to think he should just give me the benefit of the doubt?! I mean, what sort of tool would actually call someone that, openly? I think it's going to be a very long year of working together....

I've read this problem before.

So you're not alone...

And I know I'm out of step with current thinking/practice but I've never had a problem with being called Luv, darlin, me duck or any other term of endearment some complete strangers/shop assistants/work colleagues can use.
I don't find it patronising. I like the lack of formality.

JessieMcJessie...you'd be horrified? Seriously?!