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Original poster

To be pissed off that mnhq claim they don't like to delete threads but do it constantly?

123 replies

slithytove · 03/08/2014 20:40

Another one has just gone. One which could have done with staying and just having certain posts deleted.

Not even a deletion message.

Ffs.

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fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 03/08/2014 22:53

The worst post was this, directed at me, shortly before thread was deleted

Shockinglybadteacher Sun 03-Aug-14 19:56:44
It's alright, everyone. I asked MN to delete my account, I'll be away soon.

You can rest secure because everyone loves your child flinging themselves down and shouting on a random person's bench. They do. They love every second of it. It really adds to their lives.

Are their smiles not full enough? They're probably evil disablist bastards. You should report them to the police and to Mumsnet.

Yes. I am glad thread was deleted. After 12 hours of nastiness

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 03/08/2014 22:54

Last line was me. People should see what sort of stuff was said though.

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 03/08/2014 22:55

I do believe watching said they should be allowed to object to sone toe tag flinging themselves down beside them whether a filthy drunk or person with SN.

Lovely stuff

SqueakySqueak · 03/08/2014 22:55

Maryz

Yes, both sides get heated fast. It always goes down the same road. "Well, I have PTSD triggers, now can I dislike people with SN's?", "Well what if this? What if that?" I think if they're expecting someone else with SN to learn how to act, in all fairness they can learn to control their PTSD as well.

It doesn't take an idiot to figure out how to be polite in situations like that without throwing all personal boundaries out the window.

I agree, people don't need educating. Manners. Use them. You should have been educated on those since childhood.

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 03/08/2014 22:55

*toerag isn't recognised by ipad

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 03/08/2014 22:56

Squeaky your own posts were pretty inflammatory tbh.

So bit sure why the outrage now.

Maryz · 03/08/2014 22:57

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SqueakySqueak · 03/08/2014 22:59

Squeaky your own posts were pretty inflammatory tbh.

Fanjo, my stance the entire time was "Be polite. Treat them the way you would treat anyone else, including NT people". I'm sorry if you found that offensive.

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 03/08/2014 23:00

Yes this one.(I hope I am not deleted, people should see what we have to put up with)

*Gosh, I wait for my MNHQ deletion then.

C'mon MNHQ! I've upset Fanjoforthemammaries, what sin could be greater! I'm apparently totally disablist (despite being disabled myself) and what's more, I have really annoyed one of Mumsnet's Premium Posters!

I should get a warning! Don't upset Fanjofor or Fanjofor's friends. I'll be lucky if I'm not banned forever.

Seriously, do you not see how weird that looks?*

Original poster
slithytove · 03/08/2014 23:00

I saw the sarcastic one.

Was horrible.

Don't think the tea towel will make up for it somehow.

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fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 03/08/2014 23:00

Squeaky that's a good rewriting of it, yes

puntasticusername · 03/08/2014 23:00

I only saw the start of the thread under discussion. Fuck, some people are wankers though, aren't they?

I'm de-lurking to offer Thanks to Fanjo and anyone else upset by that thread. I'm sorry there are such unremitting twatbags in the world Sad

WatchingSeaMonkeys · 03/08/2014 23:00

Sea monkey, why don't you be an adult and admit using the word "toe rag" was vile? Why not cop to your post instead of backpedaling and stating it was taken out of context? Please explain exactly how toe rag used to describe a person could ever be anything except an insult? Have the courage of your convictions, if you are going to be a cunt, be a cunt with decency to stand behind your words.

I have stood behind them - I explained on the thread & I've explained to MNHQ. I certainly don't have to explain to you!!

So if you don't mind I shall love you & leave you, one of my toerags has just come in & I want to see how his weekend went!

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 03/08/2014 23:01

I really am off to sleep

No desire to bunfight again with same people.

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 03/08/2014 23:01

Thanks pun x

puntasticusername · 03/08/2014 23:02

:fistbump:

SecretWitch · 03/08/2014 23:03

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fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 03/08/2014 23:05

I would ignore certain goady people trying to continue the bunfight secret

SqueakySqueak · 03/08/2014 23:06

Squeaky that's a good rewriting of it, yes

Not getting into it again with you. Sorry you're upset that I treat SN the same as NT people. Not going to change it. I have friends with SN's and on the spectrum, and until they tell me my behavior is offensive, I'm going to assume you misinterpreted my posts.

Maryz · 03/08/2014 23:06

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Maryz · 03/08/2014 23:08

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SecretWitch · 03/08/2014 23:08

Fanjo, absolutely right. I must gather myself together. I cannot remember when I was so upset by a thread. Time to get off MN for the night. There were some absolute superstars on here though..love and hugs to everyone hurt or affected by those "words on the screen".

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 03/08/2014 23:09

Yes it is Mary.

No desire to get into it with squeaky again though. Ever

Night x

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 03/08/2014 23:09

Secret have a bug hug. Sleep well x

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 03/08/2014 23:10

And a big hug too