A relative I setting married in a few weeks and it has been made clear that they want cash as wedding gift. The expectation is in the region of £150-£200 and I'm a bit 
It is a big scale full on church wedding plus sit down reception. My guess is that the 'gifts' are paying for the wedding. Is it just me or does this seem horrible and grabby to expect cash. I mean if you cannot afford a wedding on this scale then you should have something smaller. You might as well ask ask guests to buy tickets at £100 each rather than RSVP or aibu