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...to be VERY annoyed? DH has "tidied" my wallet into the Rift!

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misanthropologist · 25/07/2014 03:58

The last time I went for a shop a few days ago, when I came in I put my car keys and wallet on our Hoosier cabinet in the kitchen. I've used my car keys since but not my wallet. I've gone to look for it and DH has gone on a mad tidying binge and the wallet is GONE. Have looked quite literally everywhere I have been in the house, in and under all furniture, but I'm afraid he's tidied it straight into the trash which has already gone. We have differing points of view: he thinks IABU for being annoyed as it "should have been in a purse and hung up", I think HIBVVU as I am no more likely to put my wallet in an effing purse (unless for special occasion) than HE is and he can fecking well leave MY things where I put them. The wallet in question is about four by five inches, brown leather and very obviously not trash or something needing tidied away.

Lastly, his car is having a new water pump put in so is in the shop til tomorrow afternoon. I probably would, but WIBU to withhold MY car keys so he can't go to work until he produces my wallet, bank card, charge cards etc? Even more annoying is that I have a millionty errands to do tomorrow and without my cards, obviously, those are right out.

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Jennifersrabbit · 10/01/2015 21:23

Can I recommend the approach we agreed when the vital irreplaceable piece of paper which DH needed to qualify professionally was lost and later mysteriously found in the recycling bin? Ie No recriminations?

We found it, he qualified and he eyes me very suspiciously whenever I try and throw a bag of rubbish out, 16 years later

BlackeyedSantaStuckUpAChimney · 10/01/2015 21:51

dd missed a hospital appointemnt as ex tidied the letter away and I only found it much, much later.

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