to assume he will pay

[sunflowerfi]

For the last few weeks a guy I used to go to school with has been badgering me to go out with him on Facebook. Although I didn't really know him at school, I thought I might as well have a date with him as if nothing else it might be nice to catch up and reminisce.
Anyway, he has suggested a meal in a fairly expensive restaurant.
I am a skint single mum and can't afford these type of places. Am I being old fashioned in assuming that seeing as he asked me out and suggested the place, he will pay?

I don't think it does - it suggests she assumes she will be paying her way and that she can't afford it.

Go with "I can't really afford there, how about here?"

I think if you are suggesting an affordable alternative it doesn't look like fishing to be paid for. Plus it sounds odd suggesting you won't be able to talk in a restaurant.

OMG don't assume! Imagine the awkward conversation at the end of the evening if he says 'So that's about £40 each, alright?'