to be tearing my hair out.....

[Lara2]

With people who say: "The woman that went....." rather than "The woman WHO...."?
Also people who say: "A place who..." rather than "A place that...."?

Rant over

Surely you are tearing your hair out at or due to rather with?

I blame Microsoft for some of the 'thats' out there - especially when 'which' would be my choice.

people who use more than 3 dots in an ellipsis...

People who speak in text speak :s should definitely not jump on grammar bandwagon, not perfect myself.

Points taken!