I think you need to see Jo Brand take him apart with a look and thunk veiled suggestion to see that he may not be misogenistic, just bemused: terrified: bemused : terrified... of women.
It's not an unusual viewpoint, nor is the other version, women who are bemused: terrified: bemused : terrified... of men!
I am quite happy he chose that venue and now to say exactly what he did. High profile times and people to get across the very unpopular, politically leprous viewpoint that, in the current zeal to be seen to put right horrendous wrongs, some innocent people are being thrown to the lions.
We are a grown up enough society to be able to see that there is no problem wanting to see justice done and peadophiles prosecuted and wanting to ensure that innocent people are not hounded by malicious accusations or long drawn out police procedures. Those 2 thoughts are not mutually exclusive. Believing the second does not make you a peadophile or mean you are making excuses for one.
Fry's personal involvement with Yew Tree includes people who have been left in limbo, whose careers have been destroyed before any charges have been laid against them. That is his viewpoint, he is absolutely entitled to defend them, to demand action on their behalf without being called names, having not so veiled accusation (not quite) laid against him. Without it being suggested that as he is gay he cannot possibly understand women and what they go through. That he must not care about rape victims as he is only interested in getting the men off....
... I appreciate this will be unpopular, but some posters here need to stop and think about why, in cases such as this, they are so happy, so quick, to leap for the jugular of a man, a gay man, who speaks out for people he cares for - is it just because he espouses a male viewpoint?
Well, men are allowed to exist, they are allowed speak on subjects such as rape, even to have opinions contrary to (what seems to be) a loud and angry sisterhood who are not listening. And tarring them all with the same brush is sexist behaviour....