I would think it very rare that a woman makes a mistake about whether or not she was raped
Really? Even if what happened wasn't consensual, she was underage or 'went along with it'? There are plenty of threads in relationships where a woman will say, 'X happened' and people on the outside will tell them 'That's rape'.
Sometimes women believe they have been raped, or assaulted, when in law they haven't.
I know that some people's lives are destroyed by rape allegations, but a lot are not. In fact, you can happily go to prison for rape and your victim will be named, villified, hounded out of her home town and when you get out, you go back to your highly paid job. You can be told by a judge that, even though you have previous for battery, you're of good character and you'll get X pathetic sentence. You can be told by a judge that, because you're a promising athlete, you obviously didn't mean to orally rape that underage girl, so, not only can you have this pathetic sentence, but you can also feel that, going on to a paper's website and slagging off your victim is perfectly ok.
These are examples of convicted rapists, not people who have been accused.
Rape is such an emotive topic. Paedophilia and Hebephilia even more so. It all boils down to his word against hers most of the time.
And...... back over to SF. Sorry for the digression.