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Football in back gardens - serious debate!

89 replies

Cherryad3 · 03/07/2014 17:43

Hi, this is my first post - I am genuinely curious as to what is and what is not deemed unreasonable regarding the playing of football in a back garden.

I have one child who is 4. Next door have 3 boys of 8, 9 and 10 and now the weather is nicer they are predictably in their back garden kicking a large leather football around and about...often up until 9pm and sometimes later.

While I appreciate it is lovely that children are enjoying fresh air and exercise, at what point does this become harassment to neighbours. I am talking about the same heavy ball hitting my child hard in the face, squashing my carefully cultivated pot plants and garden shrubs and generally causing horrid noise and damage to 6ft fence as it bangs against it on a regular basis.

Should neighbours such as myself just tolerate such inconvenience as part of life and keep passing the ball back so that it can be kicked in again at a later date.

I know this is an issue for many many people - some the owners of little footballers and some the neighbours of them - I feel like there should be an official guideline on what is and is not acceptable...what do you think?!

OP posts:
Sparklingbrook · 07/07/2017 10:49

Ooh a ZOMBIE football thread.

My advice would be TALK to the neighbours.

Babymamamama · 07/07/2017 11:14

Thanks sparkling for the heads up. How did I miss that? The ballers are prob off to uni by now. Or nearly.

DLS123 · 07/07/2017 14:23

I only posted this because after years of talking to the neighbour she
continues to not take responsibility despite Council and police involvement. I was hoping I might get some helpful feedback via Mumsnet. Keeping the balls and returning it only to a parent is a good idea which I will try.

Sparklingbrook · 07/07/2017 14:36

Start a new thread DLS123 with your particular issues. You will find that when you reanimate threads from years ago people start replying to the OP again as they don't RTFT.

Nikephorus · 07/07/2017 16:05

I didn't realise it was a ZOMBIE thread until a poster said it was the World Cup - I was Hmm

BarbarianMum · 07/07/2017 16:09

When we moved here we had 10 year old twins next door. We returned balls once a day. Now they're grown up, mine are 11 and 9. They return balls once a day.

Whatever you decide, remember this will be you in a few short years. Personally I'd ask them to use a lighter ball.

BarbarianMum · 07/07/2017 16:10

Aw fuck.

ZOMBIE ZOMBIE ZOMBIE ZOMBIE ZOMBIE

Headofthehive55 · 07/07/2017 16:47

I have a 7 year old. He has lost the ball twice into a neighbours garden and we lost one peony head (and that was DH Grin. They need to play. I find the smell of BBQ more irritating to be honest. They will grow up - perhaos revving motorbikes will be more your thing?

trouble with the park is that they need to be taken there - not say whilst you are making tea.

Twopeapods · 07/07/2017 17:52

We have three little footballers next door and they stay up later then my kids. The noise doesn't bother me but the ball coming over does. We have a basket ball hoop and a small patio area at the bottom of a sloped garden and they sometimes throw the ball from the top into the hoop and hit windows/fence my kids. Our neighbours on the other side were away on holiday a week and the boys seemed to think this meant they could use their grassy area as an extension to theirs and climbed over to play constantly. This angered DH as he wondered if they used ours when we go away. We have ours set up for the kids with a rubber tile area, playhouse, artificial grass which cost a small fortune and we don't want them using it when we're not there.

imjessie · 07/07/2017 17:55

I wouldn't allow anyone to kick a ball against my fence , especially if I was responsible to replacing them !

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StewardsonG · 11/09/2021 22:58

@cricketballs

So we have numerous posters who don't want children playing in the street and now they can't play in their own garden Hmm
really!!! you ought to be in my garden when balls are coming over every week, i have animals in my back garden, would they pay the vet bills doubt it!!!
Ahhbiscuits · 11/09/2021 23:03

zombie thread 😬

Planty13 · 11/09/2021 23:03

Bottom line is stuff in your garden is being damaged. YANBU

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