I currently live with my 4yr old son in Hoylake on the Wirral, he's due to start an excellent catholic, high achieving school in September and we live right on the beach, where the Golf Open is hosted, there are lots of lovely trendy bars and restaurants, lots of stuff for families and couples to do with boutiques and cafes, we are very lucky! However my husband has been working in Ashford, Kent, commuting home every weekend to see us, he's now passed his probationary period and wants me to find an area we would all like to rent in, as much as we like our existing town. Im looking for somewhere similar to where we are now, will compromise on the beach, that's not as important, but life, bars, cafes, restaurants, boutiques, good schools are! As well as good transport links to London, for work opportunities for me! My DH a couple of mths ago put a deposit down on a rental in RHY which is lovely but I could not see myself living there it's far too remote, and quiet. I LOVE Tunbridge Wells but it's a bit too far for my husband to travel, I know there are apparently nice towns around ashford, can any one suggest any that may be a bit like what I'm looking for??