AIBU to think this is wrong? by all means if your hidden in a corner fine but to you have to parade about!
I live in a very touristy area with lot's of family with young kids and some wonderful beaches for the UK.
Several days this week my parents (very non confrontational with others) have gone to a local beach for a swim, the end of the beach is about half a mile from the closest access and each time the same man has been starkers
The first time he was hidden behind some rocks not a problem
Second time he arrived after my folks and striped off and sat in his usual spot a second man was also starkers the other side of my parents
at this point a youngish lady walked down the beach, she saw the first chap and altered her course so as not to be too close the second man, the regular, saw this and jumped up parading in front of her walking directly towards her till she went back to the other side of the beach
The third time regular guy was there again parading up and down the beach a couple had a windbreak up they had pants on to start with but the lady had no top, after swimming when the woman had pants on they striped and started playing friz-be
This is a family beach and you could see that people were avoiding that section
My parents said his attitude when parading was very much go on i dare you to say anything/staking his territory
I advised my parents to call the council first to check it wasn't a nudey beach, the person they talked to said it wasn't but that it wasn't a problem?!?!
They then called 101 the policeman they talked to said that obviously it is serious and that next time they see him to call 101 again and report it but that they would also try to pop down, its not an easy place to access
Now me and my DP are not afraid of confrontation and hate this type of bully boy tactic's especially at a family beach with little kids
I am temped to leave DD with PIL and take my two hulking great dogs down the beach (dog friendly) for the next few days to see if he turns up again
I wouldn't actually take them as he might claim they attacked/ were dangerous as dangerous as fluffy slippers
But i would confront him as well as calling 101